Judging by the popularity of this column, as the temperatures continue to plummet you ladies must be looking for a guy to provide some warmth.
Oh, now this is a tough one and I’m guaranteed to get hate mail.
If I was on a date with a woman and she proudly proclaimed that she already “has me covered” (so to speak) in case we decide to tear up the sheets, I might be concerned.
So, sadly, yes, some dudes are gonna see it as promiscuous. I’m NOT saying women shouldn’t protect themselves, I’m just saying some guys will jump to conclusions, especially if the relationship is still relatively new.
Oh, the horror.
Seriously, get to know your partner and establish a real relationship before gettin’ down. Then you won’t have to guess if the dude is smart enough to bring protection and you won’t have to lug around a suitcase full of Lifestyles. Make him responsible for his actions. And if the relationship has matured and has eventually progressed to sex, you won’t have to worry about looking like an Easy, Sleazy, Booty-full Cover Girl. The guy will know you better than that.
That brings up what I feel is much bigger concern – ladies, if YOU always have to supply a condom for a guy, that tells me he’s either unprepared or was willing to do the deed unprotected. Both of those are much bigger worries than a women being perceived as freaky. Cut those guys off.