Take Time, Ladies!
Contributed by Karie
Dating is fun. Surprises are not. It’s important for singles to not get caught up in the excitement of possible love, the discovery of new love, and an end to dinner for one. Singles looking for that special someone should take enough time getting to know their potential mate, before diving too deep.
Nothing is more devastating than planning to spend your life with someone only to realize you never really knew the person to whom you have committed. There’s nothing worse than having to share news of a broken heart, a fight, a breakup, a cheating mate, or in some cases, divorce. So what’s enough time?
Take enough time to see the representative leave. According to my guy friends, all fellas send their “representative.” The rep is that guy from your dreams. He’s attentive, respectful, and is prepped to tell you everything you want to hear to convince you that he’s your “one.” Eventually, the dream characteristics start to fade and his true self will appear.
If the rep tells you he loves kids, watch his reaction when you offer to babysit your nephew for a couple of days. If the rep tells you he attends church, invite him to Sunday service. If the rep tells you he’s into helping others, arrange to have a date where you two volunteer at a soup kitchen. If his actions do not jibe with the rep’s sales pitch, get away fast! Take enough time to get to know your mate.
About the contributor: Karie (pronounced like Marie with a “K) is a single, 20-something living in the DC Metropolitan area. Professionally, she works as a technical writer. Outside of the office, she enjoys graphic design, creative writing, reading, and tennis. Please contact her at tracykarie@yahoo.com.
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